Attract a Girl That Barely Knows You

Sunday, June 15, 2008 0 comments

Do you have your eye on a girl, but unfortunately, she barely knows you at all?


There are few steps to follow and you will see the difference

STEPS/TIPS
1. Get to know her. This is the first and most important step. It doesn't matter if she is younger than you, before you ever engage in a relationship, you need to get a better understanding of each other. For most girls, a good conversation is a turn-on and may open her eyes to you. Ask questions about her, her family, what she likes to do, etc. This could also help decide if she is the girl for you, or if maybe you don't like her as much as you thought you did.



2 Show her that you like her regardless of her age. She'll be able to tell if you're constantly mentioning it, which will make you seem less genuine and truthful.



3 Don't rush into it. Resist the urge to just ask her out. Real relationships take time and effort to build. Besides, randomly asking her out will confuse her and increase your chances of being turned down.



4 Be friendly and caring. Ask her how she's doing today. Don't ignore her in front of your friends just because she is younger. Show your interest, first in a platonic sense. This will let her know that you care, first as a friend, and then later as something more.




5 Flirt! But only when you feel like your relationship has progressed to that point. Subtle romantic gestures are cute, such as random flowers. Use your knowledge of her to think of specific ideas that will make her swoon.




6 Be understanding. Maybe she doesn't want to date you. Maybe she isn't ready. Above all, you must remember that a relationship takes two people. Don't pressure her into anything she doesn't want to do.




7 Practice & more Practice! Any skill worth having is worth developing, and like anything, this is a skill that takes time. If at first you don't succeed, keep trying with someone else. There's a lot of fish in the sea, and the best fishermen don't fish for the fish itself, they fish just for the experience of fishing. Try catch-and-release for a while until you get comfortable. You can learn what to do with your catch later.

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